This or That Questions

150+ this or that questions for couples, quick-fire choices to discover what you both love and where you hilariously disagree. Perfect for any moment.

50 questions · Free to use

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Coffee or tea?

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1 Coffee or tea?

2 Morning person or night owl?

3 Sweet or savory?

4 Beach or mountains?

5 City or countryside?

6 Books or movies?

7 Cats or dogs?

8 Summer or winter?

9 Texting or calling?

10 Early bird or late riser?

11 Cooking or ordering in?

12 Road trip or flying?

13 Spontaneous or planned?

14 Big party or small gathering?

15 Netflix or going out?

16 Shower or bath?

17 Sunrise or sunset?

18 Music or podcasts?

19 Instagram or TikTok?

20 Salty snacks or candy?

21 Pizza or tacos?

22 Wine or beer?

23 Camping or hotel?

24 Action movies or comedies?

25 Hugs or kisses?

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26 Tattoos or no tattoos?

27 Cardio or weights?

28 Save or spend?

29 Messy or neat?

30 Fast food or sit-down restaurant?

31 Hot weather or cold weather?

32 Window seat or aisle seat?

33 Breakfast for dinner or dinner for breakfast?

34 DIY or hire someone?

35 Dress up or dress down?

36 Comedy or drama?

37 Spicy food or mild?

38 Ice cream or cake?

39 Vacation or staycation?

40 Online shopping or in-store?

41 Alone time or together time?

42 Surprises or no surprises?

43 Fancy dinner or fast food run?

44 Clean as you go or clean at the end?

45 Big spoon or little spoon?

46 Sleep in or get up early?

47 Truth or dare?

48 First class or save the money?

49 Give gifts or receive gifts?

50 Deep talk or light chat?

How to use these questions

Pick one question and have each person answer it separately first. Then share your answers and discuss. This prevents one person from anchoring the other's response and leads to more honest, interesting conversations.

Pick a question that sparks your curiosity or feels relevant to your mood tonight.

Both of you answer separately first, no peeking at each other's response.

Share your answers, compare notes, and enjoy the conversation that follows.