36 Questions to Fall in Love
Based on psychologist Arthur Aron’s famous study. These 36 questions, asked in order, are designed to create closeness between two people.
How it works
Light & Fun
Easy questions to warm up and start sharing.
Getting Deeper
Personal questions about values, memories, and dreams.
Vulnerability
The deepest questions. Real honesty, real connection.
Free • No signup • ~45 minutes
Now, look into each other’s eyes for 4 minutes.
This is the final part of the experiment. Set a comfortable position, relax, and simply look at each other. No talking needed.
You did it.
You’ve just shared something rare, real vulnerability with each other. Whatever you’re feeling right now, sit with it together.
Based on Arthur Aron’s 1997 study published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin
How It Works
A simple, beautiful experience designed for two
Choose Your Moment
Find a quiet time together. Put your phones aside, sit face to face, and give each other your full attention.
Read Together
Take turns reading each question aloud. Both of you answer honestly before moving to the next one.
Go Deeper
The questions naturally escalate. End with 4 minutes of eye contact, the most intimate part.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Created by
Amora
Helping couples connect through meaningful conversations