36 Questions to Fall in Love

Based on psychologist Arthur Aron’s famous study. These 36 questions, asked in order, are designed to create closeness between two people.

How it works

👫 Sit face to face
📖 Take turns reading aloud
💬 Both answer before moving on
I

Light & Fun

Easy questions to warm up and start sharing.

II

Getting Deeper

Personal questions about values, memories, and dreams.

III

Vulnerability

The deepest questions. Real honesty, real connection.

Free • No signup • ~45 minutes

How It Works

A simple, beautiful experience designed for two

1

Choose Your Moment

Find a quiet time together. Put your phones aside, sit face to face, and give each other your full attention.

2

Read Together

Take turns reading each question aloud. Both of you answer honestly before moving to the next one.

3

Go Deeper

The questions naturally escalate. End with 4 minutes of eye contact, the most intimate part.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the 36 questions to fall in love?
The 36 questions come from a 1997 study by psychologist Arthur Aron. They’re designed to create closeness between two people through gradually escalating self-disclosure. The questions are divided into three sets that move from light topics to deep vulnerability.
Do the 36 questions actually work?
Research shows that mutual vulnerability and self-disclosure build intimacy. While the original study focused on strangers, many couples have found that these questions deepen their existing connection by encouraging conversations they might not otherwise have.
How long does the 36 questions experience take?
Most couples complete all 36 questions in 45 minutes to 1.5 hours, plus a 4-minute eye contact exercise at the end. There’s no rush, take as much time as you need with each question.
Can I do this with my partner, not a stranger?
Absolutely! While the original study was designed for strangers, these questions are even more powerful for existing couples. They help you discover things about your partner you might never have thought to ask.

Want a new question every day?

Amora sends you and your partner a daily question. Answer privately, then see what each other said.

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