36 Questions to Fall in Love
Based on psychologist Arthur Aron’s famous study. These 36 questions, asked in order, are designed to create closeness between two people.
Light & Fun
Easy questions to warm up and start sharing.
Getting Deeper
Personal questions about values, memories, and dreams.
Vulnerability
The deepest questions. Real honesty, real connection.
Now, look into each other’s eyes for 4 minutes.
This is the final part of the experiment. Set a comfortable position, relax, and simply look at each other. No talking needed.
You did it.
You’ve just shared something rare, real vulnerability with each other. Whatever you’re feeling right now, sit with it together.
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How It Works
A simple, beautiful experience designed for two
Frequently Asked Questions
The 36 questions come from a 1997 study by psychologist Arthur Aron. They’re designed to create closeness between two people through gradually escalating self-disclosure. The questions are divided into three sets that move from light topics to deep vulnerability.
Research shows that mutual vulnerability and self-disclosure build intimacy. While the original study focused on strangers, many couples have found that these questions deepen their existing connection by encouraging conversations they might not otherwise have.
Most couples complete all 36 questions in 45 minutes to 1.5 hours, plus a 4-minute eye contact exercise at the end. There’s no rush, take as much time as you need with each question.
Absolutely! While the original study was designed for strangers, these questions are even more powerful for existing couples. They help you discover things about your partner you might never have thought to ask.
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